People being so quick to judge

Ok so this is abit of a rant but never mind . So today i shared an opinion on social media and i had some responses which were quite commical. I shared a vote leave post which i think we should. , my reason being we pay so much to be in the eu amongst other things and automatically i got branded a racist which i am not. We as individuals are entitled to an opinion and should be allowed to express it in which way we please. I am no political expert but from what ive read its more in david Cameron intrest for us to stay i find itnquite funny how the media is always posting about things hes said. Which to be fair he is our prime minster so they are going to report in there newspapers as people do want to no some of the things that come ot of his mouth. In my opinion this man has told  us alot of lies can we really trust him when he uses terms like its in our better intrest to stay. He has aleeady gone back on some of his policy's he used to get re-ellected. This country is already in a state i think with or without leaving the eu there will be consiquenses.

We as human beings we are controlled by alot of thing but people can not control what we say therefore they take things how they want to hear them. Im choosing to be true to myself and if people dont like it the can fook off  and keep there opinions on my opinion to themselves. I would also like to say thanks for reading my rant you will have to excuse me if ive made any mistakes its the anger lol #BEYOU and dont be like all the other sheep xxxx

Men should be accepted too !

These kinds of posts are usually written about women but what about men they should be accepted for who they are like some of us women expect. A mojority of women reject men because of appriance but should that matter ?. NO. We should not be brainwashed into thinking only the male model sort men are disireable and worthy. There are images posted everywhere from billboards to tv adverts making us overlook the normal man. So what if a guys abit chubby he could have a heart of gold and treat you like a princess or if hes short and bauld so what he could be he best thing ever to happen to you. The truth is it doesn't really matter what we look like its what inside that counts we age and grow. Women hate being judged because of how we look so its not okay to judge a man on how he looks. What im saying is dont overlook somebody because of how they look and accept them the way they are. Men deserve the same acceptance expected by us women. Its hard enough trying to find love so dont let a silly thing like looks stop you accepting a great man for who he is and not what he looks like. CHOOSE HAPPINESS NOT VANITY XX

Does body size really matter ?!

Were living in a society where reality tv and gossip mags are filled with skinny women filling our minds with unrealistic views of our bodies. Does it really matter if we dont look like these people we probably dont want to be like them so why look like them.  My answer is NO. We should be encouraged to be happy in our own skin which unfortunately we are not and Super skinny is the supposedly normal body size. I say so what if your a slightly different shape than you think you should be , we all need to learn not to let modern society's views on body shapes distort our image of what we believe we are ment to look like. Im not saying eat loads become morbidly obese as we all no being overweight can cause health problems , which none of us want or need in our already busy lives. I thank what i am trying to say is love yourself for you. All women are beautiful in there own individual way. Eat the piece of cake enjoy life and stop worrying so much about how much you weigh and calories i rekon you will feel happier and less unhappy about yourself. Life is bad enough without having to constantly worry about our how we look. Us women need to be our true selves not somebody elses veiw of us , we dont need to copy there ridged eating timetable or excessively exersize to copy somebody else , clothes hair and make up would make you feel just as good without the stress of a restricted lifestyle. I do however think everyone should eat quite healthy for the health benefits and some physical activity is always good. Be true to you. Im sure many of you have been told your amazing how you are either by you partener/family/friend believe them and dont let society bully you into conforming to there unrealist views on body image be happy with who you are.BE YOU.

I conclude after my rant probably brought on by the fact some cheeky sod called me fat the other day im a healthy 12. Body shape doesnt matter as long as we are happy with ourselves and not causing any harm to our health we should love our wobbly bits and live not worrying about our looks and shape. Everyone will grow old one day looks will fade and our bodies will change dont waste your life trying to have the body of a women who has the sterotypical perfect body were all heading the same way. Enjoy your life being you xx

Galderma calmurid pro body lipolotion review

This product is completely new to me amd i am so glad ive found it. Myself and my daughter have suffered with very dry skin and we have finally found a cream that works for us afer many prescription and failed products its a relief.  Calmurid pro body lipolotion rubs in easily isnt greasy and make my skin feel so soft id recommend this to anyone with dry skin gladly as its actually helped mine , i woukd like to point out that this is my opimion and might not be right for everyone who has dry skin but hopefully will work for you :)





Disclaimer this review is my own personal opinion and is in now way endorsed by anyone.

Peppa pig little angels first pants review

I recently picked these up as my daughter is peppa pig mad. As a frequent user of the little angel first pants i originally thought that the quality  may he differnt from the normal ones and doing peppa pig would compromise the quality. However i am glad to report they are the same quaility as the normal ones. Wih the added bonus of my little girl actually keeping still long enough for a nappy change.


Ive have seen these nappys on sale in asda for £1.88 which is brilliant as we all no how many nappys the little munchkins get through :))








Disclaimer this blog is in no way endorsed by asda or little angel nappys and this is my opinion on a product i have bought myself

Comfort honeysuckle and sandlewood review

This week ive been trying a new fabric softner comfort honeysucke and sandlewood. I absolutly love it smell devine and not only that hasnt caused me any irritation or my daughter who has really sensative skin although i couldnt say if itd be the same for everyone with sensitive skin for us its been brilliant. The lovely smell is fresh and delightful and after a week i can still smell it. I would deffo recommend this product its amazing.





Disclaimer this blog is no way endorsed and is my personal opinion on goods i have purchased.

Controlled crying my experience.

For many of us with toddlers bedtime can be a pain in the bum in my experience i was very bad at giving in and made the mistake of lying with my daughter until she was asleep. I found out very quickly this was not a good idea as my daughter would wake up when i was gone and would not sleep until i went to bed. As a result mine and her dads relationship suffered as there was no time for us we decided it had to change we need our time back to be a couple not just mum and dad 24/7. I spent hours searching the internet trying every trick in the book none worked until i combined a few ideas i found online and a few tips frome her lovely grandparents. Alot of the advice was based on controlled crying which mortified me as being a mother i hate my little girl crying but i decided to give it a go.

I found on its own conrolled crying did not work for me as i couldnt handle the crying and screaming and felt like i was failing my child. In the end i came up with my own plan there was some tear and tantrums but it has worked and only took 3 days which was a bonus. I will say this may not work for everybody as all children are different and im not qualifed to say hey do this it will work as it may not . This is what i did and if you choose to give it ago good luck.

1.  We established a bed time routine which will vary person to person ours is tea , wind down time , bath time , story time and bed.
2. On the first night i sat out of sight going shhh shh shhh repeatedly until she fell asleep , sneeking out of the room 5 mins after shed dropped off. I think about 30 mins later she woke up. All i did was put her back to bed shh shh shhhing until i was out of site behind the door going shh shh shh until i felt she was asleep which worked and she stayed asleep until the next day yay not bad for night one i was shocked lol .
3. On the second night i did the same as night one but sat outside the door shhing until i knew she was asleep . Again after about 2 hours she woke up so i put her back to bed and sh shh shhh from outside the room again until i knew she was asleep then she stayed asleep all night.

The third night was amazing i again shhhed her to sleep but this time further down the hall until i knew she was asleep and to my amazment she didnt wake up at all and has been sleeping really well without me ever since. Im not sure why it worked or even how but after months of nightly battles my princess was finally sleeping and i could do grown up stuff and not be in bed at 7.30 at night with no time to relax and unwind. Thanks for reading hope i can help somebody please leave me a comment if this helps you and let me no your experiances. 

Disclamer i do not judge anybody and would appriciate no nasty comments.